16 June 2014

Back Again

So it seems I only use this when I don't have a proper internet connection at home and I only have access to it via Panera, Starbucks or my phone...and seeing as how my phone plan has changed and I no longer have unlimited data, I have had to resort to sitting awhile in Starbucks to download the lastest music so I can have something new to listen to at work and at home. I have started to watch the larger part of my collection of Dr Who on my desktop, all Tom Baker, all the time :)  
I broke off things with Frankie after finding out that I was right and that I should have just trusted my instincts and dropped his ass in like October. I didn't get a chance to test my theory until about January and it really came to a head in early February.  He still owes me about 400$ total, more so now than he did before because of his own idiocy.  But that's a post for another day.
I'm dating a new guy, much better than the last in pretty much every way imaginable.  He's funny, truthful, handsome, and he treats me like an equal.   It's amazing :) I haven't been this happy truly in a long time. Not since I was single and in high school if I am really honest about it. I'm with someone who doesn't find my weird ways offputting and he puts up with my horrible puns.  He's got a great group of friends and I've been introduced to all of them as "his girlfriend" without prompting :-P   He's okay with me coming over to cook dinners, to watch wrestling and to just hang out.  It's nice, we've been to bars, been to shows, been to the river, been to a ball game, been to the comedy club and we've been bowling...in short, he's taken me to more places than all my previous boyfriends have done in the span of like 3.5 months...and I'm not sure how I should feel about that.  I mean, I feel special that he will take the time to take me places and include me on trips and stuff.  And my cat likes him.  

I have a new roommate too, an old friend from high school.  We reconnected last GWAR-B-Q and we've been in touch ever since.  She's pretty sweet, she reminds me of me and honestly is probably the only person I could see myself living with at this point. We hang out, we do shit together as a family unit...it's kinda like the awesome feeling I got when living with Sarah, only this one doesn't sell or do drugs.  Well, she smokes, but I don't count it since cigarettes aren't illegal :-P  
Everything seems to be going well at home and at work as well. I'm almost having a decent time talking with and visiting my parents almost weekly, which if you were paying attention didn't really happen all that often in the past. I'd only come round after mom begged me to visit and I'd only stay for about an hour each time, even if it had been 6 months in between visits.  It's much easier now that we are on the same ground about certain things and decisions I've been making lately.  They're happy I'm not with Frankie anymore and that I made the decision to leave him and move out early, enough so that they helped me pay off some bills in exchange for repayment for a few months.  It's not so bad of an arrangement, I'm much better off where I am now.   Much happier and I'm not paying for myself and someone else too.   I think this might be it for this post, I've run out of things to say without going too far into everything.  

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